The FAQs of squirting

Frida - Want.Porn
6 min readNov 12, 2020

We girls never had anyone to tell us how to climax properly. For guys, it is
pretty easy. All you have to do is stroke and wank your lil wee and voila
a gush of cum shoots out giving you the eternal pleasure. But for us, it’s not the same… Over 40% of women under the age of 25 has never had an orgasm. Imagine that! Even during sec, due to lack of proper awareness on how to make a girl cum, we have to fake our orgasms. So girls, it is time to take matter into our own hands. Pun intended. Here, I have presented you with the burning FAQs. These questions pester each one of us but we never really find the answers anywhere. Be it lesbian sex or a sessions of the straights or a solo adventure, If you are having trouble squirting, then most likely you’ll find an answer to your problem here:

Question: I feel like peeing when I try to make myself squirt. Is that
a normal thing? How should I stop it?

Answer: It is absolutely natural. Don’t worry about it.
If you see the anatomy of the pubes, you’ll know, when you’re touching
your G-Spot, you’re actually applying pressure to an area just below your bladder.

Now for obvious reasons, the pressure you apply when you’re horny and in
the moment increases dramatically hence increasing you’re pressure on the
walls of the bladder. Thus if you’ve some pee stored in it, you’ll obviously
feel like peeing! Additionally, you will be squirting from your urethra which
is the same place you pee from, hence the very similar feeling.

Just ignore this natural feeling and keep going. If you are still worried, then try to make yourself squirt in the shower, or do it after peeing. Once you
squirt you will see that the smell and texture of the fluid you ejaculate is not the same as pee. Remember, this liquid aka your pussy cum actually comes out from the Skene’s gland, not the bladder.

Question: It has been years. I have tried fingers, tongues, toys and
dicks. No matter what I try, I can’t squirt. What should I do?

Answer: Firstly, don’t worry too much about it. The more you stress
yourself about the outcome, the tougher it will get to cum.
Wow that rhymes!

For many women, it takes time to learn about their bodies, what feels right
and what brings them closer to squirting. So my advice would be to take
your own sweet time to touch yourself, to masturbate and to discover the kinks and fantasies that turn you on. You must keep in mind, turning on the female body is like lighting a coal; it takes its sweet time to light up but when it does… voila it radiates like a bitch! So take your time and go slow. You need to build up to it by slowly turning yourself on for up to 30 minutes before paying attention to your G-Spot. In time, you will get closer and closer to squirting.

There is also this independent group of research which has found out that
some women don’t have the Skene’s glands. Hence, they can’t squirt at all!

Question: I masturbate for over 40mins. The pressure keeps
building, but I never hit the peak & squirt. Help!?

Answer: That’s the MOST common dilemma which every girl faces so don’t
you worry.

It sounds like you know your game and are indeed very close and it will take
just a lil bit more to push you over the edge into gushing wet bliss. But as
science would have it, the technique to take you over the edge varies from
person to person.

If you ask me, broadly there are 3 techniques depending on what you get off to. For some, they need to let go, be at peace with how they feel and just relax. But for others they need to push out. This might sound a little vague, but pushing out refers to the feeling of literally pushing out with those light kegel muscles. Whereas others need intense but soft clitoral stimulation at the same time as an intense G Spot stimulation to squirt.

My advice is to experiment with all 3 of these things to see what works for you.

Question: I experienced some fluid gushing out, but I didn’t squirt
a stream of liquid. It wasn’t like what I’ve seen in porn movies. Why
not?

Answer: Ok first of all, porn is just fantasy films. Nothing they portray are
real so don’t even give it a thought. Now secondly, the level at which
women gush/ejaculate/squirt is highly variable. Some women
(like in porn?) can shoot a steady stream into the air while for most, fluid simply oozes out of their vagina. All that is important is that you feel the
nerve wracking toe-curling orgasm while the fluid comes off! It’s the same
for guys when they ejaculate. For many, it just oozes out, while for others it can fly across the room.

Question: My boyfriend/girlfriend wants me to squirt for him, but I
can’t. What should I do?

Answer: Change your partner. It’s not that difficult. Any person who
“wants” you to squirt is most likely to be a fool.

Otherwise, if you don’t wanna replace him/her, ask your partner to relax
and understand that learning to squirt takes time and patience. He/She
also needs to realize that if you’ve never squirted on your own, then it’s
even less likely that your first time is going to be with him/her. So take
some ‘alone’ time to learn to mastrubate in a manner so that you can
squirt by yourself. Then once you can easily do it alone, you are going to
find it easier to do it with your man.

You will find that the more pressure your man puts on you to squirt, the less
likely it is to happen, so get him/her to take a chill pill and relax.

Lastly, just remind your partner and also your own sweet self that some girls
simply can’t squirt, and that’s perfectly normal.

Question: There have been several times when I squirted but i
didn’t really have an orgasm. Is that normal?

Answer: It is perfectly normal. Squirting is not always linked to having an
orgasm. Sometimes you can squirt/gush and not orgasm while you do it.

Question: I want my partner to make me squirt. What should I do?

Answer: The short answer is to teach him/her and show him/her. But first,
you master the way you can squirt. Once you know exactly which buttons to
press, it is easy. Give him/her a demonstration and show him exactly what you do to make yourself orgasm. Additionally, he may find reading this very article helpful.

Question: I’ve never had an orgasm, but I want to squirt, what
should I do?

Answer: Slow down. If you can’t orgasm, then everything is going to be
much easier if you learn to masturbate and climax first, before moving on
to squirting. Check out our website for lusty videos which you can use to
masturbate and climax. Once you know how to climax, you can then go for
squirting. You must know that everything requires skills and patience. With
just a bit of time and work, you’ll get to know your body and squirt like a
pornstar!

Question: I’m a girl who wants to make my partner squirt. I can
squirt myself but those tricks don’t apply for my partner. What can
I do?

Answer: As i already said, every human body is differently built. What gets
you off might not help get another person off. Talk to your partner, let her
show you how she gets off, learn from it and then try to emulate those tricks.

This way, you’ll not only get her off like a squirting queen but could also get
close to her relationship-wise.

The last thing I’d like to say on squirting is that I have made a number of
assertions & assumptions based on both scientific and anecdotal evidence.
Despite huge numbers of women reporting being able to squirt, the
scientific community is still debating aspects of squirting such as the
makeup of the fluid that is squirted as well as the existence of the G Spot!

So, dont worry and if you still have questions after reading our writeup, just
checkout our lesbian videos. I’m sure they’re more than capable of getting your pussy off the edge!

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